Ares, the one positive I always tell people is that my commute gives me the opportunity to unwind from my day, get all the stress of the day behind me so that when I walk in the door I am ready to be with my family and not be all wound up from the job. Don't get me wrong, traffic is stressful and when you are in four lanes of bumper to bumper traffic for several miles it can get on your nerves quick, but I've gotten better at just making myself relax and listen to the cd's or my favorite jazz channel. I've gotten really good at letting things go!